Sasha Kondrashov
Introduction
In a world where the struggle for freedom and peace transcends borders, the people of Ukraine have become a symbol of resilience and unity in the face of adversity. As communities across the globe, from Kamloops and Portland to Lisbon, Oslo, Canberra, Ottawa, and Montreal, stand together in solidarity with Ukraine, we are reminded of the power of compassion, understanding, and the collective strength of those who fight for justice. This story is a testament to the importance of global solidarity and the need for regular reminders of the suffering endured by the Ukrainian people, as well as the unwavering support they require. Our personal experience on the Portland bridge serves as a poignant example of the challenges and triumphs faced by those who stand in solidarity with Ukraine. It is a microcosm of the global movement that has emerged, highlighting the importance of resilience, compassion, and unity in the face of adversity.
The Story
As Mama and I entered the Portland bridge, our hearts were filled with hope and a sense of purpose. We were on a mission to find the local community who stood in solidarity with Ukraine during these challenging times. With our Ukrainian flag proudly displayed, we eagerly anticipated signs of support and understanding from US citizens.
However, our optimism was quickly tested when the first car drove by, and its occupants yelled, “FAQ (word modified) Ukraine!” We were stunned, but we remained composed, hoping it was an isolated incident. To our dismay, the next car echoed the same sentiment, leaving us disheartened and confused.
This initial negative reaction was particularly surprising to us, as I had been standing with Ukraine in Kamloops every Saturday, and the people there had consistently shown their support. In Kamloops, only 1 out of every 500 cars would remind us to “go back where we came from” or express any negativity towards Ukraine. The overwhelming majority of the community in Kamloops stood with us, making the initial hostile reception in Portland all the more unusual and unsettling.
As we continued our journey, we encountered a mix of reactions. Some people showed no response at all, seemingly indifferent to our cause. But just as we were beginning to lose hope, we noticed visible signs of solidarity. People nodded in acknowledgment, holding up peace signs and expressing their support. Occasionally, we even heard the heartening phrase, “Slava Ukrajini!” (Glory to Ukraine!)
It became clear to us that while the majority of the American people stood with Ukraine, there were still those who held opposing views. In Kamloops we also have few individuals who reminds us to “go back where we came from,” while others shared conspiracy theories and promoted russian propaganda. Engaging in critical debate with these individuals proved challenging, as they were unwilling to listen to the stories and experiences of those who had lived through the war in Ukraine firsthand. Thank you to people of Ukraine who come with us in Kamloops and share their stories and horrors of war.
In the face of such adversity, when someone is not yet ready to listen to stories from people of Ukraine and spread harmful narratives I learned to respond with the phrase, “God have mercy” when sharing grassroot knowledge does not work. Here are few reasons why this response works for me when my regular approach to share knowledge and engage in critical conversation is not working:
- It demonstrates compassion and understanding, even towards those who may not share our views.
- It serves as a reminder that we are all human beings, deserving of mercy and forgiveness.
- It helps maintain a sense of inner peace and calm, even in the face of hostility.
- It encourages us to rise above the negativity and focus on our own actions and beliefs.
- It reminds us to have faith in a higher power and trust that justice will ultimately prevail.
- It sets an example of grace and dignity, even in the face of adversity.
- It allows us to disengage from unproductive arguments and conserve our energy for more meaningful interactions.
- It serves as a powerful statement that we will not be swayed by hatred or propaganda.
However, for those who may not believe in God or prefer a more private response, here are a few alternative short phrases ( you can add your response in comments) to maintain inner peace without engaging in verbal confrontation:
- “Peace begins within.”
- “Humanity united.”
As we continued to stand on the bridge, more and more people began to gather, forming a larger crowd that stood in solidarity with Ukraine. The positive energy and support from the growing number of individuals helped to overshadow the initial negative reactions we had encountered. It was a powerful reminder that the majority of people in Portland stand with Ukraine in its quest for peace and freedom. Thank you to people of US who encourage their elected officials to support people of Ukraine by sending needed military and civilian assistance.
The moral of our story is clear: keep standing for what you believe is right, even in the face of opposition. When someone does not share your views, respond with compassion and understanding, using phrases like “God have mercy” or the alternative short responses mentioned above or create your own response ritual to maintain inner peace, when possible. You do not need to say those words aloud but find a way to keep calm and keep saying thank you to all who stand with Ukraine. Their solidarity is so important. Trust that your message of peace and solidarity will resonate with those who are open to it and remember to prioritize your own emotional and mental well-being. If a situation escalates and becomes violent, always prioritize your safety and call 911 for assistance.
Our encounter on the Portland bridge, with its mix of support and opposition, serves as a powerful reminder that the path to solidarity is not always smooth. However, it is through these experiences that we learn the true value of compassion, understanding, and the unwavering commitment to justice that unites communities across the globe in support of Ukraine.
Conclusion
Our experience on the Portland bridge is just one example of the global movement that has emerged in support of Ukraine. From the weekly gatherings in Kamloops and Portland to the daily demonstrations in Oslo, Canberra, Ottawa, and Montreal, communities around the world have found the space and determination to stand with people of Ukraine. These regular reminders of the ongoing struggle serve as a powerful testament to the importance of international solidarity in the face of tyranny and oppression.
To all the communities that have stood with Ukraine and supported Ukrainian Armed Forces (ЗСУ), whether on a weekly, daily, or monthly basis, we extend our deepest gratitude. Your solid commitment to justice, peace, and freedom is a beacon of hope in a world that often seems consumed by violence. It is through your regular demonstrations of support that we can keep the spotlight on the suffering of the Ukrainian people and the need for continued assistance.
We hold onto the hope that more communities around the world will find the space and courage to stand with Ukraine, no matter how frequently they choose to do so. Every way you show solidarity and stand with Ukraine is critical for global peace. Whether it is through weekly gatherings like those in Kamloops and Portland, daily demonstrations like those in Oslo, Canberra, Ottawa, and Montreal, or even monthly events, every act of solidarity makes a difference. By regularly reminding the world of the ongoing struggle and the need for support, we keep expanding a global network of compassion and understanding that transcends borders and cultures.
To the people of Ukraine, know that your bravery and resilience have inspired communities across the globe. You are not alone in your fight for freedom and justice. People around the world are finding ways to stand with you, united in our commitment to building a world where peace triumphs over oppression and where the voices of the oppressed are heard. Do what you can, where you are and if someone wants to stop you say “God have mercy” and keep doing your important work.
As we move forward, let us continue to protect and promote global peace through our collective efforts. May our regular demonstrations of solidarity serve as a reminder that compassion and understanding have the power to change the world, one community at a time.
Slava Ukrajini!
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